For a best friend in need

Transference – the process by which emotions and desires originally associated with one person, such as a parent or sibling, are unconsciously shifted to another person.

I felt it so big and real. Like it was yesterday, purest of pain. Helping her go through the ordeal, analysing her feelings and thoughts, putting an arm around her for support and comfort – all of that brings me along that familiar path once more when nobody could fully understand the brokeness in me.

But I lived. And you will too. It will forever remain a big change and hole in your life, until another change takes place and the hole gets filled up again. The scars remain, though. Nevertheless, remember this – let there be no hatred but best wishes. By forgiving and letting go, you are loving the best way you can… beautifully and gracefully, of yourself and the one who hurt you. You are neither noble nor stupid, but only living according to God’s will. And He will bless you in abundance.

You may not see it possible now, but one fine day you will smile again and find a new reason to live… and live better.

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